Should we elope or have a wedding? It is one of the first big questions couples face after the proposal, and it can cause more tension than the guest list itself. There is no wrong answer, only the one that suits the two of you.
I'm Leon, an accredited celebrant and photographer based in Llandudno. Many of my couples start at a proposal with Where Two Bloom and then sit down to have exactly this conversation. Here is how I would approach it.
Picture the Moment You Say Your Vows
Close your eyes and imagine it. If you see a room full of faces, a wedding may be right. If you see each other on a quiet lakeshore with the wind in your hair, that is your answer leaning the other way.
Be Honest About the Pressure
Weddings can turn into a day planned for other people. Eloping takes that pressure away. If the thought of speeches and seating plans makes your stomach drop, listen to that feeling.
Talk About Money Openly
An elopement is not automatically cheap, but you spend on the things you will actually keep: the ceremony, the photographs, the place. My Signature Elopement starts at £3,250 and the Ultimate at £4,950 on the live packages page.
You Do Not Have to Leave Everyone Out
Eloping is not all or nothing. You can bring your closest few, your children or your dog, and keep it as small as possible. Elope now, party later shows how to celebrate with everyone afterwards.
Think About the Years After
An elopement with me leads somewhere. The Ultimate includes a free sunset anniversary with Twilight Ceremonies, and the Signature includes 15% off, so the story keeps going.
Anywhere You Choose
North Wales gives you Cwm Idwal, the Great Orme, Rhosneigr and the Clwydian Range, but you can marry at home, in your garden, elsewhere in the UK or abroad.
Whatever you decide, decide it together. If eloping is pulling at you both, read how to elope to North Wales, then book a call with me.